Outsourcing: Giving It Away
Have you ever felt like you have too much on your plate? Like there just aren't enough hours in a day to get everything done? Well, you're not alone. I feel like that almost every day. Whether I'm managing a business, mothering the homies, loving my man, supporting my friends, sistering, daughtering, UGHA! Sometimes, it seems there is more to do than I can get done. Listening to my clients, I have learned that many people struggle with the same issue. It’s common to feel overwhelmed and stressed out when there are too many things to do.
But! I have found a solution to this challenge. One answer is outsourcing. Outsourcing is giving tasks or responsibilities to other people or companies. It lets you focus on what you love and enjoy while someone else takes care of the rest.
Outsourcing can significantly impact your mental, emotional, and physical health. You feel happier and more fulfilled when you have more time and space to do the things you love. You're less stressed and can focus on what truly matters to you.
Outsourcing can even save relationships. There is no need to fight about who will cook the family holiday meal when the meal is catered. Partners don’t have to argue about cleaning the house every Saturday when the cleaning company comes instead. Parents don’t have to argue with their children about homework when the tutor helps them do it. Relationships can benefit from letting someone else do it!
Admittedly, outsourcing can be tricky for some people. Those of us who like to be in control struggle to let go and trust others enough to allow them to do tasks. This can be especially true for those who are used to doing everything themselves or have difficulty delegating tasks.
Outsourcing requires trusting others, faith in God, and confidence in the process. When we consciously trust, we open ourselves to greater freedom and growth. By releasing control and letting go of the fears and doubts that hold us back, we create space for new opportunities and experiences to enter into our lives. Trusting others can be difficult, especially when we are used to doing everything ourselves. However, when we learn to delegate and rely on others, we create a supportive network to help us achieve our goals and dreams. This can lead to greater productivity, efficiency, and overall success. Yes, someone else can do it as well as you.
Here are a few tips to help you get started with outsourcing:
1. Identify the tasks or responsibilities causing you the most stress or taking up the most time. These are the tasks that you should consider outsourcing first.
2. Find trustworthy individuals or companies to help you with these tasks. Look for people with experience in the areas you need help with and a good reputation.
3. Communicate clearly with the people you're outsourcing to. Make sure they understand what you need and when you need it. This will help ensure that the tasks are done correctly and on time.
4. Let go of control and trust the process. Outsourcing requires trust, which is essential for growth and development. You don’t have to do it for it to be done. Let them help.
If you're struggling with too much, consider outsourcing. It could be as simple as hiring a virtual assistant to help with administrative tasks or delegating household chores to family members. (Speaking of virtual assistants, shout out to my new virtual assistant, Mel!) Whatever it is, remember that outsourcing is a wellness tool that can help you live a happier, healthier life. You are worthy of help and support. Don’t do it alone.
In this together,
Dr. Adrianne R. Pinkney
